So you’ve met someone you like, and you’re pretty sure the feeling is mutual.
Now comes the age-old question; what are the two of you going to do about it?
But not so fast, your plan has backfired, a couple of months have gone by and you’re starting to think that this one might just be a keeper.
So what are the best ways to ensure your now not-so-casual fling doesn’t end up being the one that got away?
Just be sure to keep a few aces up your sleeve to keep things interesting later on.
If you’ve gotten yourself into one of those sticky situations where the two of you live at opposite ends of the country – or planet – but you’re determined nonetheless to give things a go, set a time together that you will meet again, preferably before you say your first goodbye.
Recently, I read about an interview with a Navy EOD (Explosive Ordnance Disposal) professional. How do they do that without getting blown up in the process? And the great thing about those rules is they work just as well for relationships as they do in combat. If he asks what you mean by that, you can’t say, “I don’t know. You know, more serious.” Know what YOU want from the relationship.He leaves his stuff lying around so much that you got fed up enough to just move some of your stuff and give him a drawer in your dresser.Now if he could just learn to keep the drawer closed so you would stop walking into it that would be great :)At first it was just convenience, you would throw on his favourite Led Zeppelin T-shirt in the morning and make him coffee.It's terrifying to put yourself out there, especially if you don't know how the guy feels (eek! But if you think you're going to have to bite the bullet and have the talk, you're in luck: We've rounded up a few people to tell you exactly how to go about it. Everyone has a different "right" time to have the "what are we? "It's easy to think, Well, we've been hooking up for three months, so we should talk about what we're doing," says Scott Alden, creative strategist for the dating site How About "It is possible, however, that you are currently in a mutually beneficial, casual hook-up situation. Spend some time thinking about whether or not the relationship is just fine for you as it is.