Too Intense Too Fast One of the biggest pitfalls of dating I’ve seen both women and men encounter is jumping head over heels into a relationship and then having it sizzle out as fast as it started. This savvy and attractive 30-something woman sighed deeply. You wouldn’t sign a contract to only shop at a certain grocery store the first time you walked in the door, so why would you drop all your potential relationships until both parties are ready to commit and move forward at the same pace? I shouldn’t be two-timing him.”The lightbulbs went off in my head. This idea of only dating one person at break-neck speed was the reason she continued in the same pattern of broken relationships.Unfortunately, I watch certain individuals repeat this same pattern over and over.There seemed to be 10 girls for every single available guy in church.
In fact, they act like they are married within 10 minutes.
Many people have suffered greatly in their relationships because they neglected to spend time with God before dating.
It’s important that believers conduct themselves in a gracious and honorable manner in their dating experiences.
This is not just a business for us; it’s what gets us up each and every day.
We count our success by the enormous number of connections, relationships, marriages, and children we’ve helped to create.