just bec she makes you wait doesn't mean you should give up. i just got into a relationship with someone before i even dated him. Point is, each situation is different and like others have said, go with your gut, if it feels right and you two want to be exclusive, just ask. Well, I thought my ex-wife was the perfect woman for me, but that wasn't love at first sight.
If you meet someone you really like, then isn't that the ultimate goal? The topic came up when a friend assumed he was in a relationship with someone because they hung out a few times and I turned to my husband (then bf) and said to him he never officially asked me if I wanted to go "steady". OP, talk to her and see if you're both on the same page.
Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! If you feel like you could have a relationship with that person, then why would you keep looking? It isn't like you're getting married by deciding to be in a relationship and only date one person. I'm in the same boat, it's been about a month now and we've gone on about 3 dates.
Some forums can only be seen by registered members. You can always try it out for awhile and see where it goes. I do like her and I'm considering a relationship with her, I'd like to give it another month to be sure. She's stopped by the crib a couple of times to hang out and watch movies, and she's even coming over on Friday to bring me some soup since I've been ill this whole week.
Work is more demanding, it’s likely you’ve taken up some personal hobbies and have invested quite some time attending hens nights, weddings and babysitting your friends’ kids.
The first few dates can be great but if you put it on hold for too long till the next, you start to forget how great the last date was. Of course these matters are subjective and so we’ve asked our guy panel. However, I feel if something is amazing, a lack of momentum is never an issue. The early stages are so critical and it doesn’t seem to take much to lose traction.
Because you’re not at the stage of being an integrated part of each other’s lives, you can easily slip back in to that mode of not being with each other again.
But is it too soon for you guys to become exclusive?
Is it too It should never be immediately, honestly.