Girls are afraid to take the first step, they are often shy of taking the initiative so as not to seem Intrusive, and the guys are frightened of being rejected and as a result the feeling of self-depreciatory and underestimating of themselves.
In addition to other problems of communicating with people you don’t know, it is difficult to guess whether a person is willing to chat with you.
One of the best places to put yourself out is Vanilla Show.
Chat Random - this is a random video chat, access to which is absolutely free.
Here you will meet both girls and boys who want to chat with a random stranger via webcam.
Both guys and girls often suffer from this kind of problem.
It's not enjoyable for guys if meeting is failed, especially on public, in front of other people.