I know I am being sneaky/snoopy by checking up on him to see how often her goes on the site (and he goes on often! It’s not like I’d call this guy my boyfriend already, I know it’s still early… Author’s note: I have expanded the content of this article since it’s original post (as I do from time to time).This is thanks, in part, to your excellent comments and questions from the audience.You’re just seeing what he’s doing online and that information is freely available to the world.Your motivations for checking up on this are worth looking at, though, because it gives me the feeling that either something inside you feels like you don’t quite trust this guy or that you don’t trust the relationship you’re in to have trust as a quality (and so you’re always checking and testing because you don’t have that trust to begin with…Another reason not to call men is so you don't catch them in the middle of something-watching a football game, paying bills, entertaining a friend, or even sleeping—when they may not be in the mood to talk to you. Invariably, when you call him, he will get off the phone first or quickly and you might misinterpret his busyness as disinterest. Understandably, you feel empty and nervous for the rest of the day or evening or until you hear from him again. If he leaves a message on your machine to return his call, try not to.This nervousness might make you call him agzm to ask, "Is everything okay? Only call him back right away if it's a scheduling change regarding an upcoming date or event; not just to chat.
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